Tantric embodiment, eros and sacred relationship work

Tantric embodiment, eros
& sacred relationship work

Come Home to What Is Alive

This is a return to radical intimacy with life, where nothing in you is a mistake or beyond loving. This path does not ask you to become better but to become real. It embraces all of life, both creation and destruction, pleasure and discomfort, longing and loss, aliveness and stillness as a whole.

Here, nothing in you needs to be excluded. Not your tenderness, not your shame or messy self, not your hunger or excitement, not your fear or intensity. Even what feels difficult is welcomed into awareness, and the body and nervous system are honoured as intelligent.

Wholeness is not something to achieve. It is what remains when you meet yourself beneath conditioning and pressure, as you are.

What Tantra Is

Tantra is an ancient spiritual path rooted in Indian traditions that explores the relationship between body, consciousness, energy, and the sacred. The word Tantra is often understood as meaning to weave or expand, reflecting a path that brings together the many layers of human experience rather than separating the spiritual from the human. Tantra invites us into a deeper relationship with ourselves through awareness, presence, breath, the body, emotions, desire, and the energies that move through us. Rather than rejecting parts of our experience, Tantra recognises that all aspects of being human can become pathways for transformation, awakening, and a deeper connection to life.

Tantra, Sexuality, and This Work

Tantra has become widely associated with sexuality and intimacy in modern Western culture, partly due to certain Tantric traditions that explored sexual energy, union, and the relationship between masculine and feminine principles. However, sexuality is one expression within the wider Tantric path and is not the foundation of Tantra itself.

In this work, Tantra is not approached as only a sexual practice, but as a way of awakening through the fullness of human experience. It is an exploration of the energies that move through us, our emotions and desires, the patterns that shape our unconscious, and the way we meet life through intimacy, relationship, and work, alongside the quieter, often unspoken parts of ourselves that influence how we experience the world.

Tantra becomes a doorway into greater awareness, allowing all that arises within us to be met with presence, curiosity, and reverence.

The elements and depth within this work

The Sacred Wound

The original fracture that initiates the soul’s awakening; where pain meets purpose and opens the portal to freedom and liberation.

Archetypes and the shadow

The hidden contracts in the archetypal shadows and the release from contracts of repetition.

Eros as Life Force

The primal, divine current of desire—creative, erotic, wild—and its sacred role in awakening and integration.

Desire and Repulsion

Navigating the dance of attraction and aversion as a mirror of the soul’s longing and fear of union; transmuting shame into sovereignty.

Hieros Gamos (Sacred Marriage)

The union to the sacred.

Duality and Unconscious Energies

Facing shadow and polarity not as problems to fix but as sacred tensions to integrate and embody; the tantric embrace of all that is.

Sacred Rage

Honoring anger as holy fire—clarifying, protective, and catalytic; rage as a sacred ally in the return to truth and integrity.

The Exposed, Flawed Human Self

Embracing raw humanness as divine; undoing spiritual perfectionism in favor of embodied, vulnerable truth.

Soul Shock and Existential Crisis

Initiatory moments where identity collapses; gateways to soul retrieval, transformation, and remembrance of origin.

Dismantling Internalized Patriarchy

Unweaving the inherited systems of control, domination, and disembodiment; returning to radical presence and relational wholeness.

The Resurrection of the Goddess

Reclaiming the sacred feminine in all her forms for both men and women—chaotic, nurturing, fierce, erotic—and restoring her voice in the body, psyche, and collective.

Sexuality, Taboo and Unconscious Energies

Exploring the hidden, shameful, and transgressive aspects of desire with presence, awareness, and the courage to meet what has been suppressed.

The Calling

My deepest calling is to be present with you where life begins to unravel where something in you can no longer continue as it has and where old identities begin to fall away as deeper truths surface.

These moments can feel like chaos yet they often carry a deeper force of renewal drawing you toward what has been hidden unmet or unintegrated. Old contracts and patterns held in the body nervous system and relational field begin to loosen.

In this space there is room for the nervous system to tremble for grief and rage to move and for the ache of what was never yours to carry. Within that something quieter begins to emerge the part of you that remembers what was here before conditioning and abandonment. This is the truth of you under it all.

If Something in You Recognizes This

Maybe your life looks right on the outside but something in you feels stuck.

  • Do you long for more passion, connection, and vulnerability in your relationships yet still feel something is missing
  • Do you feel deeply but hold yourself back
  • Are your desires shaped by shame and confusion sometimes surfacing through fantasy or pornography and leaving you feeling unworthy
  • Are you tired of ways of living and relating that no longer feel true but find it hard to break free
  • Maybe there is a sexual edge, a darkness, or an intensity in you that has never been fully expressed without shame

The emergence of the Goddess back into the reality of life

The Goddess is not something outside of you or above you. It lives as the living force within you, the current of creation, destruction, renewal, and devotion that moves through your body daily. It is in your longing, your desire, your ache, your fire.

In many traditions, this aspect of the divine has been suppressed, controlled, or reduced throughout history. This work is a reclamation of what has been silenced.

For women, this often means reclaiming parts of themselves that have been controlled, softened, or made to fit into narrow expressions of femininity. It is a return to instinct, truth, and embodied power.

For men, this work can open a deeper connection to feeling, devotion, and inner sensitivity. It invites a softening of rigid structures and a reconnection to the heart and the body.

To meet her is to meet the full spectrum of yourself. The raw, the tender, the chaotic, and the sacred. This work approaches this energy not as an idea, but as something living in you.

Eros and Desire in unhealthy relationships as a path to awakening

Awakening often does not arrive in stillness, but at times through desire, attraction, and relationship. People meet someone who mirrors them, and something between them begins to move in a powerful and often undeniable way. This can open a process of awakening or deep inner shift, where old patterns, wounds, and truths begin to surface and unravel.

These experiences can feel magnetic, consuming, and at times overwhelming or even terrifying. Yet there is often a strong inner force that keeps you within it, as if something deeper is asking to be seen, felt, and lived.

In this work, there is no judgment of what arises. Desire, attachment, patterning, fantasy, and relational intensity are met with awareness and integrity rather than shame or suppression. Eros is not something to overcome, but something to remain present within, so it can become a pathway rather than unconscious repetition.

Desire becomes a doorway inward, not only as longing for another, but as a force that reveals shadow, the unclaimed, sacred sexuality, and the unseen parts of yourself. Sacred wounding becomes a portal, relational challenge becomes invitation, and even tension between light and shadow points toward wholeness.

Eros is the force that brings you back to life.

Working with the Spiritual and Unconscious Realms in Tantric Practice

Core Embodied Work

  • Connection between heart, body, and sexuality
  • Breath, sound, movement, and dance practices
  • Yoga nidra, Qigong and Tandava tantric practices
  • Full body sensual and orgasmic awareness practices
  • Sensual touch and embodied exploration for male and female bodies
  • Releasing performance and control
  • Developing intimacy within yourself and in relationships

Female Body Based Practices

  • External yoni and anus de-armouring meditation, mapping, and tracking
  • Full body de-armouring and energetic breathwork work
  • Jade egg practice for the yoni and female body – Qigong practice
  • Breast and ovary massage – Qigong practice
  • Connection to feminine cycles and inner rhythms
  • Support for sexual awakening and reconnection

Sexuality and Conscious Exploration

  • Bringing fantasies and desires into awareness
  • Masturbation de-conditioning healing for all genders
  • Relearning relationship to pleasure and desire
  • Exploring erotic energy, regulating erotic response and slowing down patterns
  • Working through shame and hidden aspects of sexuality

Inner Child and Relational Work

  • Reconnecting with early emotional needs
  • Nurturing and supportive embodied experiences
  • Exploring how early dynamics influence intimacy and sexuality
  • Building safety and integration

Goddess and Sacred Work

  • Reclaiming feminine power and presence
  • Working with the body as a portal to the sacred
  • Dismantling patriarchal conditioning
  • Ritual, movement, and breath practices

Education and Awareness

  • Understanding sexuality beyond shame
  • Somatic awareness and nervous system tools
  • Consent, boundaries, and relational dynamics
  • Unlearning conditioned patterns around sex

Male Body Based Practices

  • External penis and anus de-armouring meditation with mapping and tracking
  • Full body de-armouring and energetic breathwork work
  • Sensual embodiment and presence practices
  • Moving out of avoidance and into connection
  • Heart opening practices
  • Working with ejaculation patterns and conditioning

Who This Work Is For

This work may resonate with people who:

  • feel disconnected from their body, sexuality, or emotional truth
  • are navigating relationship challenges or attachment patterns
  • want to explore intimacy and desire in a more conscious way
  • are moving through identity shifts, awakening, or existential transition
  • feel called toward deeper embodiment, authenticity, and relational healing
  • are seeking a grounded approach to tantra, eros, shadow work, and emotional integration
Tantric embodiment session

In-Person & Online

Tantric Psychological Based Sessions

In-Person & Online Sessions
60 minutesKr 1,100
90 minutesKr 1,650

Reduced rates available for those affected by health or financial circumstances — please get in touch to discuss support options.

Longer sessions welcome.

A space to explore connection, embodiment, and your relationship to intimacy and sexuality with awareness and care. Together we work with patterns, boundaries, and emotional presence to support deeper self-understanding, sexual maturity, and personal growth. All expressions of sexuality are welcome.

These session do not involve sensual touch work. See below.

Non-Genital · Non-Genitally Orgasmic

Sensual Body Exploration

In-Person & Online Sessions
60 minutesKr 1,800
90 minutesKr 2,700
120 minutesKr 3,600

Longer sessions recommended for deeper exploration and integration.

A guided somatic experience focused on embodiment, intimacy, and the exploration of your relationship to sexuality in a conscious and grounded way. This work supports awareness, emotional depth, and personal growth through the body.

Sessions may include elements of sensory exploration — different forms of touch or textures — always held within clear boundaries and mutual agreement. Clients may be partially unclothed and are always in full control of the pace, boundaries, and direction of the session.

This is a non-sexual service. There is no genital touch or sexual interaction. The experience is centred on the client’s own internal process and awareness.

90–120 Minute Sessions Only

Dearmouring Breathwork Sessions

In-Person Session
90 minutesKr 1,800
120 minutesKr 2,400
Breathwork Deep Tissue / Pressure Point Touch Verbal Processing Emotional Release Pain Release Physical Movement

Dearmouring is a somatic practice for gently releasing physical and emotional tension patterns held in the body — often stored from trauma, conditioning, or chronic stress. Online sessions available. Contact for eligibility.

Not suitable for intense or acute trauma as a first course of healing. Trauma Integration Sessions are recommended first.

All touch is fully consensual, non-sexual, and guided by your boundaries.

For Biological Women Only

Women’s Work

Yoni Egg & Feminine Self-Practices — In-Person & Online
Yoni Egg – Beginner (60 min)Kr 1,200
Yoni Jade Egg – Beginner to Intermediate (60 min)Kr 1,400
Yoni Egg – Gentle Weights & Internal Self-Stretching (75 min)Kr 1,600
Qigong Breast & Ovarian Massage – Self-Practice (60–75 min)Kr 1,700
Qigong Breast & Ovarian Massage – Shared Practice (60–75 min)Kr 1,900

Supporting feminine embodiment, sensuality, self-connection, and healing through guided somatic and sacred practices. All sessions held with clear boundaries, respect, and full consent. Guided as self-practices — you remain in full control at all times. Shared practice not offered in the first session.

Practitioner-Led Feminine Bodywork — In-Person Only
Breast Massage – Chest, Ribs & Stomach (60 min)Kr 1,400
Full Body Sensual Massage – Qigong-based, non-penetrative (90 min)Kr 2,250

Breast Massage focuses on the upper body with essential oils optional. Full Body excludes genital and internal vaginal touch.

Touch is non-sexual, trauma-informed, and consent-guided throughout. Sessions may be clothed, partially unclothed, or nude — always at your comfort and agreement.

Late Cancellation / Rescheduling (Within 48 Hours)

If a session is cancelled within 48 hours of the scheduled appointment time, the full session fee will be charged.

If a rescheduling request is made within 48 hours of the scheduled appointment time due to an unforeseen circumstance, a 40% rescheduling fee applies. The session may be moved once, and the rescheduled appointment must be booked within 1 week of the original appointment date.

Session Timing and Overtime

Sessions begin and end at the agreed times. Any time extending more than 5 minutes past the scheduled end will be charged as overtime.

Students

If you're experiencing financial difficulty, please feel free to speak with me, we may be able to find an arrangement. Students may request a discount (approx. 15% for therapy and 10% for soft/relaxing massage).

Introductory Call

If helpful, new clients can arrange a free 15-minute introductory call to see whether this feels right for them. Longer discussions would need to be booked as a session.

International and Online Clients

All payments are made in NOK (Norwegian kroner) and will be automatically converted by your bank if applicable. Payment must be completed at least 2 days before the session to confirm the booking.

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Sessions are held in person or online. Reach out to discuss which offering feels right for where you are.

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